Violent Reaction?

As a girl or maybe a lady, I will never be fallen in love with that man in the story. He is arrogant and very proud of himself. He only thinks of is intelligence. In short, he is emotionless. He doesn’t care about his feelings and as well as the feelings of others. He just thinks of himself. He even insults one’s imperfectness. He thinks of himself as a perfect and that no one could stop him or refuse him. Imagine, he doesn’t care about what he feels towards Polly. In fact, he doesn’t really feel anything.

If he will be compared to the present type of guys of these days, he will really be called as “manhid” or a “manggagamit”. And I hate that kind of guys. I really hate them all. and if someone would dare court me, I will really vomit a pail of food from my mouth.

There are really guys who are like that. It’s true that we can’t control their attitudes. Maybe they have these weird principles of life. Da… what the hell I care about those principles of theirs! They only think of their good future. They don’t think of what will happen if they will be married to a woman whom they do not love. Some do these because of business. If you are a famous businessman, you will not dare to marry a girl who doesn’t even have her own house. Of course you will search for a good one. It could be as wealthy as you are or someone that had made a great name in a country like politicians. Some also marry women whom they don’t love because of arranged marriage. Is it still popular these days? Maybe they are still. We have to consider that not the parents are the ones who will suffer in the end but the children. So if I was the parent, I will let my children marry the people they loved.

Maybe I’m not at the right time to say these all to you. Maybe I don’t really understand the situation of the world. But I can always be sure that I will not marry the person whom I don’t love. I don’t care of the hindrances because I know how to think well and to choose the right one for me. And of that assurances, I am confident that I will be choosing the man who is right for me both by financial, by family’s approval and by emotional.

Another reaction that I want to elaborate is the comparing. Like what the man said in the story, he is right for Polly because he is brilliant and wealthy. But the features seen outside are not that very important. Maybe they are important for some reasons but the ones inside are more important, the attitude, the feelings and the sincerity of a person. I know exactly that people nowadays are looking forward to attractive and well-looking people whom they will love. Unlike before that people didn’t care about their physical features, they thought if their feelings. But… we must not forget that heart can never rule the brain. It is always the brain that says to the heart the right emotion to feel. So don’t be fooled by your emotions because it also means that you are not using your head.